i've been typing up notes from arlie russell hochschild's the second shift (2003 [1989]) and thinking about how women, men and families strategize (both practically and ideologically, as hochschild discusses) to get paid work and house/family work done. i was reminded of all of the amazon entries i'd paged through online when E was a baby, i was going back to work and needed advice about nursing/pumping. when hochschild was writing in 1989, she noted that there was a multitude of advice books for employed moms, but none for employed dads (27). i wondered if this was still true.
to do a quick survey of the field of books written specifically for employed mothers and working fathers as either 1) how to "do it all" advice manuals or, 2) memoirs of the authors' own mis/adventures in parenthood and paid work, i did separate amazon searches--"working father", "working mother" and "working family."
here's what i found, looking at the first 10 pages (120 entries) of each search's results:
"working family"--2 titles
"working father"--3 titles
"working mother"--51 titles (plus 2 more that came up in the "working family" search)
i expected a discrepancy, but was still a little surprised at the huge gap between "mother" and "father" books. clearly, employed motherhood is still the "marked category" that draws attention from both writers and readers and is understood to require a level of balancing/juggling/managing not attached to employed fatherhood. a few titles demonstrate this:
42 Rules for Working Moms: Practical, Funny Advice for Achieving Work-Life Balance by Laura Lowell (2008)
Mothers on the Fast Track: How a New Generation Can Balance Family and Careers by Mary Ann Mason and Eve Mason Ekman (2007)
The Stuporwoman Files: Observations of an Overworked, Overhwelmed, Overjoyed Working Mother
by Monica L Lewis (2005)
Help Me Before I Go Crazy: Adventures from a Working Mother's Life by Marjorie Nightingale (2004)
Flex Time: A Working Mother's Guide to Balancing Career and Family by Jacqueline Foley and Sally Armstrong (2003)
*i'm looking for more recent studies that document hours spent in employed work and house/family work--if you know of any, let me know!
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